Mark Manson, author and speaker, shares key signs to indicate it is time to edit your cycle. These signs show that they may not genuinely want to see you succeed.
**They minimize your wins. They may not be hostile about it, but your success makes them uncomfortable so they find ways to shrink it.
**They are more animated about your problems than your progress. They lean in when things are going wrong in a way they never do when they are going right.
**They give advice that keeps you stuck. They steer you away from things that might actually work anf towards options that keep you stagnant and on their level.
**They introduce doubt through comparison. They compare you with others in a way to minimize what you are excited about to make you feel as if what you strive for is not a big deal.
Happy and secure people celebrate other people’s wins. Your progress does not intimidate them or make them jealous antagonists. Choose wisely.
